Dating Attraction

Below is the event description for ladies. Link for gentlemen.

Shorter intro

Are you searching for a kind, caring, and honest man who’s ready for a long-term relationship?

That isn’t always easy. Many men aren’t experienced at emotional skills and may expect a woman to be first to provide the care and kindness they need, which can often lead to mismatched expectations and even conflict.

It’s more realistic to look for someone who, even not completely ready for a deep connection, but open to building emotional skills and navigating conflict with empathy and care. That’s exactly the type of man you’ll meet at this event.

You'll engage in short, structured games with 5-10 different men, creating a relaxed, safe space where you can both let down your guard, release your playful energy, and enjoy warm, supportive contact.

Each game is designed to build a specific dating or relationship skill, like giving and receiving compliments, sharing interests and emotions, and initiating first contact. You’ll learn something new and help your partner do the same.

Studies show that while women often choose attractive men for short-term connections, kindness and supportiveness are prioritized in long-term partners. For that reason, some games are blindfolded, allowing you to focus on the emotional experience rather than physical attraction, which can sometimes be misleading.

Each activity is crafted to make interactions as genuine and open as possible, helping you connect on a deeper level and even meet someone special.

At this event, you’ll:

• Step into a new dating experience focused on genuine connection rather than just trying to impress
• Enjoy playful, warm contact with 5-10 single men in diverse formats (blindfolded, non-verbal, and structured verbal)
• Refresh your dating skills and support your partners’ growth as well
• Have fun and soak in the positive group energy

Sign up today to start a journey of self-discovery, meaningful interaction, and joy!

Please note: Many games are played on the floor, so you’ll need to be comfortable sitting on a yoga mat.

Longer intro

The standard approach to dating today involves joining apps with the perfect photos and description, using scripted messages, building a “funnel” of interested men, going on dates, and evaluating them based on your criteria. The man with the highest score wins—simple as that.

The problem? Your heart doesn’t understand points. It just wants someone who can be there to hug and soothe you after a long, tough day, someone who listens and supports without criticism or indifference, someone genuinely interested in how you’re really doing.

Maybe you've had challenging experiences in past relationships and understand how fragile trust can be. Early on, both people are in love, and trust comes easily, but as time goes by, romantic love fades, and the strength of an emotional connection becomes the bond that can carry a relationship for a lifetime. That’s why today, women tend to look for emotional skills in men, thinking long-term.

For generations, a man’s hard work and ability to protect were enough to attract a woman. But now, emotional support is essential—and yet, it’s something many men still expect primarily from women. So, men approach dating aiming to impress, to like and be liked—not necessarily to connect. And you may even feel impressed, but you’re left without that true “click.” Why? How to make that “click” happen?

The truth is, you can’t control the “click” directly. What you can do is create a warm, safe space with your partner where your heart can gradually open. To create and maintain this space, both partners need certain skills: giving and receiving compliments, sharing genuine interests and emotions. This is exactly what our workshop focuses on.

My name is Dmitry Shevchuk, and I have worked as a family counselor for over five years, with more than 1,000 hours of consulting and training sessions with individuals, couples, and groups. I’m 47 and, in my personal life, I’ve experienced both long-term and short-term relationships. Currently I am happily married for four years.

This workshop is based on games and techniques I use daily with couples to help them build closer connections. All of the activities are grounded in psychological theory and have been tested and refined over the years. Some methods are drawn from my own dating experiences.

So, what will we actually do? We’ll play short games in pairs. For example, each partner will compliment the other’s appearance for two minutes, while both are blindfolded. This allows you to use your creativity and imagination freely, knowing that you might be wrong about the “facts” anyway. The listener’s role is to thank their partner for the compliments, regardless of what is said. In these games, you’ll likely hear more compliments than ever before.

Next, we’ll switch partners and discuss the compliments you most want to hear, and your new partner will give them to you just as you asked. This exercise teaches you how to request positive communication rather than waiting for a partner to guess your needs. Then, we’ll move on to complimenting each other’s character, asking questions from genuine curiosity, asking about each other’s emotions, and sharing our own feelings, giving and receiving support. You’ll be surprised how these simple tools can create psychological safety and even affection with people you can’t even see.

In the next stage, we’ll play with open eyes, practicing how to initiate contact that feels safe and comfortable from the very beginning. Finding the right person is a bit like a lottery—character doesn’t always correlate with appearance, so you can’t judge if someone is a good fit for you based on looks alone. Instead, approach people, be open to being approached, play, and enjoy the experience until you find your “bingo.”

You might be surprised to discover that you can create this safe, warm space with many different people; your heart isn’t destined to open with just one person in the world. You do have a choice and can apply your wish list of qualities to find someone who aligns with your desires in many ways.

To sum up, in this workshop, you’ll:

• Interact with men in unique, safe, and playful scenarios
• Enhance your skills for emotional attunement
• Expand your social circle in an engaging way
• Share your experiences in a supportive group setting

I love seeing the glow in participants’ eyes during the final reflections, knowing that their hearts and minds were aligned in this journey toward connection and happiness. That’s the best result I could hope for.

Grab your ticket, and I’ll see you at the event soon!

Yours,
Dmitry Shevchuk

What participants say about their experience:
🌟 "I didn't know I could feel this comfortable opening up to strangers. It was amazing." (Anna, 32)
🌟 "This workshop taught me how to connect without overthinking—just being myself." (James, 28)
🌟 "I never realized how fun and meaningful dating could be until now." (Laura, 35)
🌟 "The games made it so easy to break the ice and actually enjoy meeting new people." (Chris, 30)
🌟 "I walked away feeling more confident in myself and my ability to connect with others." (Sarah, 27)
🌟 "It’s rare to meet so many kind and genuine people in one place." (David, 42)